Happy Valentine’s Day lovely readers! I hope that your snowy Thursday is filled with love, laughter, and hopefully not too many sweets. Isn’t it crazy how many treats just pop up on holidays like today? If you find yourself craving some amazing cookies though, try making these beauties today for your Valentine! I don’t usually get really into Valentine’s Day, mostly because I like to love on my husband and family/friends year round, but I’m definitely into the whole Leslie Knope-Galentine’s-making it a holiday-type of thing that happening on social media. Yay women lifting up other women!
So I’ve been started training recently for a 5k run. Last year, my husband, mom and dad, sister and brother in law all ran in the Irish Jig 5k and we had a blast! But after the run, I really struggled to stay motivated to actually get my butt to the gym and run. So I’ve come to the conclusion that I need to just keep signing up for races to keep myself motivated. And this works perfectly for one of my resolutions this year, to run a 10k, which I’ve never done before. Also, one of my life goals is to run a marathon but that feels way too crazy for 2019. Maybe 2020. Anyways, we are all running in the Irish Jig this year and I can’t wait! It’s seriously so fun and there’s so many people that run in it. You should totally sign up too! Yay free shirts!
Our second winter storm has hit good old Grand Rapids. Hopefully we won’t lose power this time! It’s supposed to warm up today to almost 40 and then drop below freezing so we might be seeing some more awesome ice photos from around Michigan. I’m looking forward to staying inside with my fuzzy slippers and playing Sushi-Go with my husband until the storm passes. If you haven’t played this game yet, seriously go get it. It’s so fun!
I’ve been really into podcasts recently (I forget now if I brought this up last week…) but I would love to hear what your favorite podcasts are! Please comment below because I would love to check them out. I also always am on the lookout for new books to read, but my stack is growing taller everyday so those might just get plugged into my amazon wish list. Speaking of books, be on the lookout for a book review for the Bee Keeper’s Lament in the next couple of days! I hope your day is filled with love!
My mom, Bev, my sister, Ally, and I absolutely love to do bookclub together. There’s just something about reading a book that someone else has also read while it’s still semi-fresh in your head that provides a connection that we adore. I can’t remember when we first started doing this, but since my sister and I both live in Grand Rapids, and my mom in St. Joseph, we try to do this a couple times a year.
Our bookclubs have become semi-legendary over the years. We usually kick out the boys, make/go out for some great food (preferably a cuisine that fits in with the theme of the book), and have plenty of wine. Since we enjoy these bookclubs so much, I thought that I would share what we ate, what we talked about, and what we drank!
Let’s talk about the book first. We all really liked this book! I think my mom chose this pick for us. Sarah Jessica Parker started SJP for Hogarth which is her new publishing company. This is the first book that she’s published and I think this is why we heard about it in the first place. And I’m so glad that we did!
A Place For Us is skillfully written by Fatima Farheen Mirza. In her debut novel, she takes us on a journey through an Muslim-American family trying to balance faith, family, and the crucial different between right and wrong. The book opens up with a wedding for the eldest daughter and continuously returns to the scene. Throughout the novel, it’s almost as if we are peeking into the families memories in no certain order. We get to see memories that shaped the events that happen at this wedding, from a variety of perspectives.
Overall, the consensus was that we really enjoyed this book and it was a great read! This bookclub was really fun because we were able to discuss the theme of family as it was seen in the book compared to our family.
Some of the questions that we brought up during our discussion are listed below. These are great starting points, but feel free to add your own! When I lead the questions, I also like to start with some broad questions which helps to get the conversation started.
What was your overall impression of the book?
Why was this book chosen?
Did you like the fragmented style that the narrative was laid out?
Would you pursue future books written by this author?
Do you think that showing a brief example of how 9/11 affected Muslim-Americans added to the story line?
How do you interpret the strained relationship between the children and their father?
Because the storyline between Amira and Amar was very Romeo & Juliet-esque, do you think it became a doomed love story?
What could have pushed Rafiq to come to the realization that he experienced in the final section before Amar disappeared again?
How could their family dynamics have differed if they weren’t Muslim?
How much of the Amar-troubles could have been avoided if they had a more open dialogue between the children and the parents?
The menu for our bookclub included this thick and sweet Mango Rum Lassi, delicious and comforting Chicken Tikka Masala, warm naan bread, and a nice warming bottle of Rioja wine. We chose the lassi because it’s something that was featured in the book, without the rum of course, and we had never tried one before! It was quite sweet, and I think each of us only had one small glass before we switched to wine. The Tikka Masala is one of my favorite things to make at home, and since it was also mentioned int he book, it was a natural fit. The naan bread seemed fitting too, and we just warmed it up for a minute or two in the oven before serving. I also made a coconut basmati rice to serve under the tikka. This rice was super easy, just replace all of the water with coconut milk and add in salt, pepper, and fresh or ground ginger.
Because my sister is a vegetarian, I also made a simple cauliflower tikka masala, which I basically just made the same recipe without marinating the chicken. It turned out so good and the cauliflower pieces just steamed in the sauce and absorbed all that flavor.
If you have any other questions about this book or about how to host a book club of your own, feel free to drop a comment or send me a message! I’d love to hear from you!
I’ll be the first to admit it, there a quite a few holes in my literary education. I haven’t read anything by Jane Austen, Margaret Atwood, or even all of the Harry Potter books. I know, its terrible. But I love to read! So when thinking about what books I want to read in 2019, I put together a list of classics, nonfiction, memoirs, and new releases. If you want to up your reading game, feel free to use this list and let me know about it by using the hashtag, #nutmegreads2019 so I can see it! I think 2019 is going to be a good year for readers!
Be aware, this is a long post. If you just want the new releases list, feel free to search for my 2019 Book List on Amazon to see what new releases I’m excited about!
(1) Becoming by Michelle Obama
First on my list is the most recent book that I’ve bought, that was just released a month or two ago. This is definitely one of those bandwagon books that I’ve seen all over social media. I’ve always been a big fan of the Obamas, and I haven’t read any of the books that they’ve written. Maybe I’m just missing them being in office so I feel compelled to read this book, but I’m also intrigued at the idea of getting a closer look into Michelle and what it was like for her to be the First Lady.
(2) Golden Child by Claire Adam
This next book is going to be released in January of 2019. I found this book on Oprah’s list of the Most Anticipated books of 2019 so it’s probably going to be a great read. This book is published by Sarah Jessica Parker’s new publishing house and if this book is anything like her debut book, A Place for Us by Fatima Farheen Mizra, it will be very well written. It tells the story of a mother choosing between her two sons, set in Trinidad.
(3) Severance by Ling Ma
I know, I’m a little late to the Ling Ma train, but better late than never, right? Published towards the end of the summer, this book quickly caught the attention of book reviewers and even NPR. In her debut novel, the main character lives in NYC but ends up fighting for her life in an apocalypse-type situation. Not quite the usual reason people leave the Big Apple. While I love movies that have this same fight-for-survival theme, I’m interested to see how it plays out on the page.
(4) There There by Tommy Orange
The striking orange cover with black artwork is what drew me to this book, and the reviews are what prompted me to add it to my list. In fact, this book was on the New York Times Book Reviews 10 Best Books of 2018 list. Orange’s debut novel tackles of theme of home through the eyes of Native Americans’ set in Oakland, California. Hopefully, it’s a great read!
(5) The Handmaid’s Tale
I’ve been meaning to read this book for years now. In a sense, I have read parts of the books, through the lense of Sparknotes, apologies to my Honors English teacher! This book is finally being pushed to the top of my reading list not only because I want to finally watch the series on hulu, but also because Margaret Atwood is coming out with a sequel to this book in 2019! If you also haven’t read this classic dystopian novel, it’s the story of a world where womans’ freedoms are limited and women are only valued for their fertility.
(6) In Defense of Food by Michael Pollan
This is another book that’s been on my shelf for a while, but I’m pushing it near the top of my list for next year. I’m obsessed with food, not sure if you noticed) and I’ve been told that I should read this multiple times. In this nonfiction book, Pollan delves into the idea of what we should actually be eating and how, over the years, food has left natural food items and turned into products of food science. I’m looking forward to this book and it will be a timely read when so many people are trying to be healthier in the New Year.
(7) Small Fry by Lisa Brennan-Jobs
I first heard about this book on NPR and I was immediately interested. I don’t know much about Steve Jobs or even that he was married!
(8) The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings Pt. 1, 2, and 3
I’ve seen the movies… so I should really read the books!
(9) The Night Olivia Fell by Christina McDonald
I found this book on another Most Anticipated List, it might have been Oprah’s again. This chilling story is definitely a huge step out of my comfort zone for books. I avoid scary movies at all costs and I hardly ever read thrillers. But this book sounds so intriguing that I just might give it a shot.
(10) My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante
This is one of those books that I picked up a while ago at a little bookstore in Grand Rapids cleverly called Books and Mortar. Written by an Italian author, I bought this because I was intrigued by a story that takes place in Naples. I hope it was a good purchase!
(11) Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover
I don’t read many memoirs, but one of my goals for 2019 is to read more memoirs by people that inspire.
(12) More Than Words by Jill Santopolo
(13) Atonement by Ian McEwan
(14) All The Birds in The Sky by Charlie Jane Anders
(15) Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney
(16) American Prison by Shane Bauer
(17) Bowlaway by Elizabeth McCracken
(18) The Care and Feeding of Ravenously Hungry Girls by Anissa Gray
(19) The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert
(20) All The Ugly and Wonderful Things by Bryn Greenwood
(21) The Age of Light by Whitney Scharer
(22) The Saturday Night Supper Club by Carla Laureano
(23) Me Before You by Jojo Moyes
(24) After you by Jojo Moyes
(25) The Path Made Clear by Oprah Winfrey
(26) Gingerbread by Helen Oyeyemi
(27) Washington Black by Esi Edugyan
(28) Era of Ignition by Amber Tamblyn
(29) How to Change your Mind by Michael Pollan
(30) Uncommon Type by Tom Hanks
(31) The Island of Sea Women by Lisa See
(32) The Clockmaker’s Daughter by Kate Morton
(33) The Moment of Lift by Melinda Gates
(34) The Perfect Nanny by Leila Slimani
(35) Choice Cuts by Mark Kurlanksy
(36) Sourdough by Robin Sloan
(37) Normal People by Sally Rooney
(38) Frederick Douglass by David W. Blight
(39) Feast Your Eyes by Myla Goldberg
(40) Machines Like Me by Ian McEwan
(41) The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai
(42) The Farm by Joanne Ramos
(43) Farmacology by Daphne Miller
(44) City of Girls by Elizabeth Gilbert
(45) Eileen by Ottessa Moshfegh
(46) The Testaments by Margaret Atwood
(47) Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
(48) The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
(49) The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows
(50) I’ll Be Gone in the Dark by Michelle McNamara
I just might add to this for the second half of 2019, as most of the new releases I found are being published in the first six months of the year. Plus, I’m sure I’ll come across a few classics that I desperately need to get under my belt!
“Life: a constellation of vital phenomena—organization, irritability, movement, growth, reproduction, adaptation.”-pg. 184
This book fell into my lap unexpectedly. On my maiden visit to my new local library, I came across this book. I always pick up way too many books (at least four) on every trip. The cover of this book as well as the title appealed to me immediately, which I know is a terrible stereotype. However, this system has proven effective for me.
Taking place during the war in Chechnya in 2004, and several years prior, this novel cleverly tells the tale of hardship, love, family, and consequences. Before reading this book, I’d never heard of Chechnya or knew anything about the wars in Russia. This really opened my eyes to hardships that are faced around the world much like The Leavers by Lisa Ko and :I am Malala: by Malala Yousafzai.
Each character that Marra creates is expertly developed in just enough time to truly add to the storyline. I loved his writing style in that he bounces around between one year and the next, in an efficient and elegant way. He captures the struggle, the tough decisions that need to be made, and the terrible pain that accompanies wartime.
This novel truly floored me. I was hooked from the first chapter, and could not put it down. Even after I finished it, I found myself thinking about it. If you enjoyed reading All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doer, you will love this book.
“As a web is no more than holes woven together, they were bonded by what was no longer there.” -pg. 63
So this story takes place in Alaska so it might not be the best summer read, unless you’re very overheated and want to pretend your brain is frozen.
“Deep in the forest a call was sounding, and as often as he heard this call, mysteriously thrilling and luring, he felt compelled to turn his back upon the fire and the beaten earth around it, and to plunge in to the forest, and on and on, he knew not where or why; nor did her wonder where or why, the call sounding imperiously, deep in the forest.”-pg. 57
The Call of the Wild tells the story of Buck, removed from his cushy life in California, and finds himself sold into the dog sled life. He experiences the difficulty of working his way to the lead of the pack and surviving the harsh weather conditions and owners.
Written by the same author of White Fang, Jack London expertly captures struggle to survive in the cold Alaskan air during the Gold Rush from the perspective of a sled dog. Compared to the first book I read by Jack London, I liked this one from the get go. Read more about that review here! The story keeps moving in a short and concise way, while still touching on the importance of the heritage of wolves and dogs share. If you are a fan of Jack London, or just enjoy dogs and the outdoors, you will enjoy this book.
I was recommended to read this book by my smart and handsome husband. It’s a rare read that really shifts your perspective on the world. I’ll admit that I found it a bit difficult at times to get into the book, but I’m really glad I read it. Plus, now I understand Leslie Knope’s obsession with Jack London.
White Fang is the title of the novel as well as the name of the main character. The story starts with his mother, Kiche, whose origins are part wolf and part dog. She belonged to a group of Indians, but deserted them during a famine. We get a front row seat to White Fang’s puppy and adolescent years when he figures out the laws of nature and then man’s laws. His life is full of heartbreak and love, and the ending makes the long story worth the read.
The back story is important, but I found it a bit cumbersome to get through. While it did help to explain White Fang’s personality and round out the story, I think it could’ve been streamlined a bit. I did really enjoy the last 100 pages or so the most. Everyone who is considering owning a dog should have to read this book to understand their mannerisms. I took this book on a recent camping trip and my sister’s puppy was there. It was really interesting to read about possibly what could be going on in her head when she’s interacting with nature and how necessary it is for an owner to gain the trust of their dog.
Swimming Lessons is a novel about a young love that blossoms between a budding feminist and her literary professor/writer, set in England. They fall in love and an unplanned pregnancy brings a tumultuous and emotional time for Ingrid. She’s unable to finish school, struggling to accept her new daughter, and finds out that her husband is the man she was warned about. After several miscarriages, and many more mistresses, Ingrid finds herself on the verge of leaving the life she has come to hate. What actually happened to her is speculation, but Flora never gave up hope that her mom was still alive. Written from Flora’s point of view as well as from Ingrid’s point of view in the letters that she leaves for Gil in his expansive book collection, you are left to piece together the story and speculate about what really happened.
This book is artfully written. I am a sucker for books about book stores or writers or books themselves, which this book is about all three of those things. But it also shows us the complicated webs that love weaves, between husband and wife, mother and daughter, life and loss, betrayal and trust. The narrative is quite creative in that as soon as you find yourself hooked on Flora’s point of view, the chapter ends and Ingrid’s lost letters enlighten the reader.
It was quite interesting to watch Flora grow up and to watch Ingrid disappear. Claire Fuller did an excellent job in revealing just the right amount of information to keep us turning the pages. It’s a medium length book, but a fast read and would make a great book club book.
It’s been a really long time since I’ve gotten lost in a book they way I got lost in ‘The Leavers’ by Lisa Ko. The story she weaves is so artfully and purposefully unraveled. You are discovering new things about each character as they realize them about themselves.
I picked this book up on a site called Book of the Month. If you’ve never heard of this subscription box service, it’s pretty great. They select five books every month that you can choose from based on whatever subscription level you sign up for. What I really like about them is that you can read a synopsis of each book as well as a review written by a fellow book lover about the book. They picks are smart and broad, covering a wide variety of genres. I often use this site when I’m looking for books that I know will be good, but may be in a new genre. You can also skip the month if you don’t see anything you want. In the spirit of full disclosure, I am not being paid to promote them, I just really like them. If you’re interested, click this link to sign up!
‘The Leavers’ tells the heart-wrenching story of a mother and son, who try to find their home in a world that prevents them from truly knowing each other. Immigration, adoption, adolescence, heartbreak, mental illness, abuse, and poverty are all topics that find their way between these pages. After reading this book, my eyes were really opened to what immigrants sometimes have to go through to get into America, all for a better life. I don’t think this book was based off of a true story, however I do know that there are Immigration Detention Centers in the USA that have less than perfect living conditions and that stories similar to this exist.
It breaks my heart to think about stories such a this one, where a mother leaves her child in her home country and survives the travel conditions to make it here, only to work hard to pay off her debt and then be jailed, abused, and deported. This book also tackles the topic of adoption, and exposes all sides of it. This is the first time I’ve read anything about an older child being adopted, one that remembers his birth mother all too well. Another topic that is touched on can speak to probably almost everyone. It shows a very raw look at the struggle it is to find where home is for yourself and to find something that you are passionate about in life. All too often, kids think that they need to figure out everything by the time they get to college when that is unrealistic. Deming’s story took a good look at this.
Overall, this book really widened my world view and I would highly recommend it. Also, Lisa Ko’s writing style worked really well for me and I found myself completely submersed in the story. This is the kind of book that will have you thinking about the characters even when you aren’t reading it.
You guys. I just finished this book, like less than 3 hours ago and I just couldn’t wait to post about it. I don’t even have a picture for this post because I read it so fast. This is one of those books that really makes you think and changes your perspective on the world.
If you’ve never heard the name Malala Yousafzai, then let me give you a quick run down of her amazing story. She grew up in Pakistan and experienced the terror of the Taliban first hand, all while she was only 11 years old. She fought for her right to attend school and advocated for the right to education for every child. Because of how outspoken she was, she was targeted and shot point blank by a member of the Taliban.
This well written autobiography captures Malala’s strength, spirit, and tenacity while thoughtfully telling her story. Her innocence shows in the early chapters when she herself was still young and trying to figure out her world. She has accomplished so much in her life, and she is truly an inspiration to determined women and girls everywhere. It’s no surprise that she’s the youngest person ever to be awarded the Noble Peace Prize.
Malala opened my eyes to the struggles that face women and girls all over the world. While the #metoo movement is still in the forefront of the media, there’s a need to bring the issue of education of all individuals back into the spotlight. We need to fight for all of women’s right so that every human can have the same rights. Education for all could solve a lot of the issues around the world.
Seriously, use the freedom you have to read and educate yourself and buy/borrow this book. Here’s even a link!
Do you ever find yourself wishing that you had that friend that was always reading something current and interesting, possibly a book that will transport you within its pages or change the way you see the world?
I’ve tried to follow other public book clubs like Reese Witherspoon’s and Oprah’s picks, but it can be hard to sync up your reading pace with theirs. I really like the Book of the Month subscription box, especially because you can read a synopsis and a judge’s review of the books. They also do a lot of pre-releases for popular books.
I’m very fortunate that my beautiful mother used to be an English teacher and is still an avid reader to this day. My sister, my mom and I actually do a book club several times a year. Every time my mom comes to visit me, she brings me at least one new book. I should mention that she only lives and hour and a half away. So it’s no surprise that I have a stack of books patiently waiting to be opened.
With our recent week-long trip to Costa Rica, I was able to have time to read finally. And I didn’t waste any time at all! I read a YA novel by Sara Evans, Nourished by Lia Huber, The Fault in Our Stars (I know, I’m late to the party on this one), and I started I am Malala. It was awesome to get back into reading again!
I love to share books that I find interesting or life-changing with my coworkers and friends so I thought that I’d start to share them here. Feel free to leave comments, book suggestions, grammar corrections, or any other concerns.