It’s been a really long time since I’ve gotten lost in a book they way I got lost in ‘The Leavers’ by Lisa Ko. The story she weaves is so artfully and purposefully unraveled. You are discovering new things about each character as they realize them about themselves.
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‘The Leavers’ tells the heart-wrenching story of a mother and son, who try to find their home in a world that prevents them from truly knowing each other. Immigration, adoption, adolescence, heartbreak, mental illness, abuse, and poverty are all topics that find their way between these pages. After reading this book, my eyes were really opened to what immigrants sometimes have to go through to get into America, all for a better life. I don’t think this book was based off of a true story, however I do know that there are Immigration Detention Centers in the USA that have less than perfect living conditions and that stories similar to this exist.
It breaks my heart to think about stories such a this one, where a mother leaves her child in her home country and survives the travel conditions to make it here, only to work hard to pay off her debt and then be jailed, abused, and deported. This book also tackles the topic of adoption, and exposes all sides of it. This is the first time I’ve read anything about an older child being adopted, one that remembers his birth mother all too well. Another topic that is touched on can speak to probably almost everyone. It shows a very raw look at the struggle it is to find where home is for yourself and to find something that you are passionate about in life. All too often, kids think that they need to figure out everything by the time they get to college when that is unrealistic. Deming’s story took a good look at this.
Overall, this book really widened my world view and I would highly recommend it. Also, Lisa Ko’s writing style worked really well for me and I found myself completely submersed in the story. This is the kind of book that will have you thinking about the characters even when you aren’t reading it.